Swimwear for your Shape

There's no denying it, most women go into a panic over buying swimwear. Because, let's face it, swimwear is tricky! But don't worry if you haven't got the body of Rachel Hunter and your very own beachwear range to go with it, our useful buying guide will help you find the best swimwear for your shape.

We're talking confidence-boosting tricks, flattering styles, and the odd optical illusion thrown in for good measure. Always remember that you are aiming for a balanced silhouette. As this is (hopefully) the only time you'll appear in public in what amounts to your underwear, you've got to get it right. Time to get your swimwear sorted.

So let’s go through the dos and don’ts for different body shapes and figure challenges for women.

Wide Shoulders

Do's: Balance is the key word here. Wear bikini bottoms that have lots of colour and print and also have detail at the hips such as ties, belts and sashes. Also, halter necks are fabulous for slimming down wide shoulders.
Don'ts: Avoid the "V" silhouette by staying away from those plunging neck lines or teeny bikini bottoms.

Big Bust

Do's: Halter-top bikinis can be a good choice by offering support, while providing some nice cleavage too. Look for styles that are banded around the midriff and can be tied in back and around the neck. Look for structured swimsuits.
Don'ts: Avoid strapless bandeau top bikinis and tiny tri-tops with minimal coverage and support.

Short Legs or Torso

Do's: Play up your figure by finding a swimsuit that is cut high on the thigh. This will make your leg look much longer. Also, a one-piece suit with a plunging neckline creates a long appearance and is drop dead gorgeous!
Don'ts: Avoid boy shorts and skirted bikinis that draw the eye downward, making you look shorter.

Long Body

Do's: You can go wild with swimwear embellishments at the hips and bust line. Try horizontal stripes and fabrics with texture or pattern. Boy shorts are just the thing for your slim hips.
Don'ts: Avoid up and down stripes, high necklines and dark, solid colours when choosing a swimsuit.

No Waist

Do's: Create curves with a belted waistline, which will give the appearance of a whittled middle. Bikinis are good for you. Add some illusion at the hips with rings, ruffles and bows. If you're small on top, go for a strapless bandeau.
Don'ts: Avoid solid-coloured swimwear or horizontal striped one-pieces.

Small Bust

Do's: You are lucky that you have the body to wear ruffled bikinis and tiny tri-tops. And as for bandeau tops, only you can wear those well. Bright colours are what you want to wear on the beach this summer, so take a risk with a colour like pink.
Don'ts: Avoid bikini tops with too much fabric or have a poor fit. Opt for separate tops and bottoms.

Plus Sized

Do's: A strategically placed cut-out, or a deep V neckline on swimwear can change your image. Dark, cool colours, swirling, or V patterns are always good. Lengthen your thigh with a higher cut leg.
Don'ts: Avoid too much fabric when it comes to choosing a swimsuit. Modesty is certainly OK, but too much coverage is not. Stay away from white, neon fabrics and thick textured fabrics.

Too Much Tummy

Do's: Check out the tankini swimsuits that are on the fashion scene today. They cover just enough, but you still have the freedom and hip factor of a bikini. A one-piece with some ruching around the waist or hips can also help to conceal.
Don'ts: Avoid itsy bitsy bikinis and solid-coloured one-pieces.

Pear-Shaped

Do's: When you are bigger on the bottom you want to draw people’s eyes up by wearing a pretty, eye-catching detailed bikini top. Make sure that your bottom sits well on your hips and that it is a shade darker than your bikini top.
Don'ts: Avoid boy shorts and detailed swimsuit bottoms. Keep the bottom of your suit simple.

Athletic Shape

Do's: Show off your toned arms and shoulders with a halter bikini. If you have a boyish figure, try to wear suits with flirty details. Try bows or ties on the side of the suit that will help create visual curves.
Don'ts: Avoid solid swimsuits without pattern and detail. Stay away from swimsuits that don't have support and shape.

Hourglass

Hourglass figures have balance shoulders and hips with a smaller waist. If this is you, you're lucky because just about any classic styled bathing suit should flatter your figure. Work with your curves, don’t hide them under tank tops and board shorts. If you’ve got it, flaunt it… with taste & style.

Here are some other tips to remember:

· Check your rear view.

· Take a photo on a digital camera when deciding what swimsuit to buy. Sometimes mirrors lie.

· Board-shorts aren’t always the answer. Sometimes they can actually make you look bigger.


If this is still all too scary to face, take a Personal Shopper with you. They will give you honest advice, and make sure that you look the best you possibly can on the beach.


Check out www.outfitme.co.nz to see how we can help.

Packing Light for Holiday

If you’ve ever been hassled about the amount of luggage that you take with you on holiday, if you end up wearing only half of what you take, or leave important pieces behind, you may have wondered if there is a better way to pack for holiday.

The answer is yes, there is!

All you have to do is make a plan, assemble a clothing capsule, and put it in the suitcase. Once you get good at it, you can be packed and ready to go in about ten minutes.

So, where do you start??

Make a plan

I've known lots of women who insist on packing just about everything they own because they don't know what they'll "feel" like wearing on any given day of their trip.

Translation: They don't know what they're supposed to wear so they take everything, hoping something will be appropriate.

What's a better plan?

Ask. Find out what you'll be doing, where you'll be going, and what the weather's like. If you'll be visiting friends or relatives, ask them. It's such a simple little thing, but so few people think to do it. If you don't know, ASK! It's the quickest way to find your answer. Once you know what you’ll be up to, you can begin to consider what types of clothing you need to take.

Assemble a Clothing Capsule

The next step is to figure out how to take as few pieces as possible yet still cover all of your activities. Sound impossible? Not if you use clothing capsules. Once you master how to mix and match your clothes, you'll be amazed by what you can do with the clothes you already own.

A clothing capsule is approximately 8-12 pieces of clothing that mix and match easily with each other. They can be the same or complimentary colours, and in styles that work well with each other.

Let's say that you're headed to a bach near the beach for the week following Christmas. You'll be eating, shopping, going hiking, eating, going to the beach, and possibly going out to dinner.

A good capsule might include:
• White tank top
• Red merino jumper
• Red t-shirt
• Black shrug/cardi
• Animal print scarf
• Black shorts
• White skirt
• Jeans
• Summer dress – white with black floral print
• Swimsuit

Now, for some sample outfits:

Dinner: Summer dress, black shrug
Shopping: Red T-shirt, jeans,
Hiking: White tank top, Red merino jumper, black shorts
The movies: Red merino jumper, jeans, black shrug
Eating out: White tank top, white skirt, scarf tied at neck, black shrug
The beach: Swimsuit, black shorts

See how easy this is? If you stick with a basic colour scheme and pieces that mix and match easily, you'll not only have a variety of outfits, you'll be able to come up with something instantly if you find yourself headed somewhere or doing something you hadn't planned.

Another bonus? You can cut way down on the number of shoes and other accessories you need to take because you won't have to accessorize so many different outfits.

Once you've put together your clothing capsule, decide what accessories you need to take (jewellery, belts, shoes, handbags). These will help make your outfits more interesting and make your pieces look even more varied.

Put it in the Suitcase

Put everything in your suitcase. Add sleepwear, slippers, and a summer robe. Put in your underwear and footwear for however many days you need. If you'll be swimming or working out, pack those clothes as well.

Use travel size toiletries, and keep them in your cosmetic case from here on out. Pack any prescription medications you need and throw in some earplugs in case there are rowdy parties while you are trying to sleep. Make sure you don’t forget your sunscreen too.

Finally, always wear layers when you travel, particularly if you're going to be changing climates. So wear cardigans or pullovers that can be added or removed as needed. If you keep them in the same colour family as your clothing capsule, you now have one more piece to work with.

Make a plan, put together a clothing capsule, and put it in your suitcase. You'll look good, feel great, and save yourself an aching back. You may even raise some eyebrows by how few pieces of luggage you bring - especially when you look great every day of your trip.

If you are still stuck for Christmas gift ideas, check out our brochure on www.outfitme.co.nz, and think about giving your loved one a gift voucher for some pamper time, shopping help, a wardrobe session or even a makeover.

Stumped for Christmas Gift Ideas?

What do you get for those people who seem to have everything?

Last Christmas, instead of just buying "stuff" for our family for Christmas, we decided to buy them an experience. For my dad, we brought a hand gliding experience, which was something he had always wanted to do. For someone else, it was a relaxing massage. These kind of presents are experienced and remembered with a big smile. So, maybe this Christmas, try to think in terms of creating memories, rather than creating clutter.

Does someone special in your life need a bit of pampering, a bit of time to just focus on themselves? Maybe your mum, sister or brother spring to mind. We can be so busy around Christmas, that we often don't take time out to do something special for ourselves.

Have a browse through our brochure for some great gift ideas... a bit of wardrobe help, some "what not to wear advice", a personal shopping trip, a makeover, and lots more great Christmas gift ideas.

So check out www.outfitme.co.nz, or contact us for help.

P.S. If you are too short of time (and patience) for Christmas gift shopping, leave it to the professionals! We can help out with your Christmas shopping, leaving you stress free, but still with the brownie points!

What to wear to a Christmas Party

It’s that time of year again… that stretch of weeks when we are feeling rushed, overworked, and desperately looking forward to a holiday. We can so often get caught up in deadlines, Christmas shopping, and the fluster of the looming season, that we don’t have time to think about what to wear to the many functions that crop up around this time. The last thing you want is to get to Wednesday, and think “Yikes, the Christmas function is on Friday night, and I have nothing to wear!”

As I’ve mentioned many times before, the way you present yourself sends messages about your personality, lifestyle, character, your status, and so much more. Ask yourself what message you want to send with your appearance, and make sure that your outfit and overall look supports that message.

For Men: Your work culture will often determine how casual or dressy you should be for the function. If you are in doubt, ask. That will be far less embarrassing than turning up in jeans, when everyone else looks suave and classy. Remember that often this is a chance to dress up a bit, shake off the work blues, and have some fun. So make sure you are comfortable, but always aim to be smart and stylish.

And whatever you do… make sure you leave the knitted Rudolph jumper in your closet, just don’t do it. The same goes for satin waistcoats with anything resembling a cartoon character or Christmas paraphernalia – these should be burnt!

Instead, if your function calls for casual dress… go for a nice chino or smart dark jean, with a nice long sleeve shirt. Make sure your shoes are clean and polished.

For a more formal function, stick to a suit. Choose a great shirt and tie combo that reflects your personality, but don’t go cheesy. Remember, photos will most likely be taken.

For Ladies: Again, make sure you know how dressy your work function will be. This is your chance to look fabulous, show your personality, and get complimented on your sense of style. Make sure, however, that you don’t go overboard. Choose an outfit that is appropriate for your body shape, colouring and age.

There are a few options for outfits: you can go with a trousers and a gorgeous top, you can go for a skirt and top option, or a fabulous dress.

So what are the dos & don’ts?

DON’TS

• Don’t dress like a prude
• Don’t do the ‘Mutton dressed as Lamb’ look either
• Don’t dress too sexy for the office crowd, as you may attract unwanted attention that could take months to shake off
• Don’t dress too casually
• Don’t wear the same thing you wear to work every day. Show some personality and creativity
• Don’t wear shoes that you can’t walk in without falling over
• Don’t wear lipstick on your teeth
• Don’t wear a frumpy jacket over a gorgeous outfit, it will ruin the look completely

DOS

• Do accessorize – show some personality with your accessory choices
• Do look absolutely fabulous
• Do make sure you are comfortable in what you’re wearing (nothing looks worse than a lady who continually hitches up an ill fitting strapless bra)
• Do dress appropriately for the occasion – no towering heels for a beach function
• Do bring something warm that works with your outfit
• Do get help with your makeup if you don’t do it well yourself (try a department store)
• Do put on some fake tan if you are pasty (test it well in advance)
• Do layer with opaque stockings or footless tights if you are cold
• Do check your back view in the mirror before you leave

Remember that photos will probably be taken during the function and pasted on the office wall the next week, so make sure that you are happy with how you look, stand up straight, and remember the number one accessory you can’t go without: a smile.

If you need some help shopping for a party outfit, take a Personal Shopper with you. Check out our brochure for more details.

Are you stuck in a Style Rut?

A style rut can happen at any age. It happens when you get stuck in one way of thinking and dressing, without taking notice of the changes that have happened to you and around you.

There are a few different style ruts that we tend to get stuck in:

The Comfort Rut: where you can’t be bothered to try any new looks, you just grab your easy clothes and chuck them on. Often you are a bit scared to change because you don’t know what will suit you. For instance, do you look in your wardrobe see mostly one colour (black) or mainly one or two styles of clothing?

The Busy Rut: when you are too flat out to even think about clothes, so you just wear the same thing over and over again (black pants and shirt), and you know that you don’t feel great in your clothes or that they are really ‘you’, but you don’t have time to figure it all out by yourself… where do you even start?

The Flash Back Rut: where you look like you just stepped out of a former fashion decade… “Excuse me, the 80’s called and they’d like their perm back please!” You haven’t moved on and it’s clearly visible. You are a bit oblivious to this, but also a bit scared to try something new.

The Mutton Rut: You’ve all heard of the saying “Mutton dressed as Lamb”. It sounds harsh of course, but really it’s just when you know you looked good in a certain style and you find it hard to let go of that, even though your body and looks have likely changed. In this rut, you are often dressing in too young a look for your age. Now, I’m all for stylish looking ladies of all ages, but there are some things that are appropriate, and some that aren’t.

So, how do you know if you are stuck in a style rut?

• You are totally uninspired by what you see in your wardrobe.
• You end up buying an item when you already have several others just like it at home.
• Your wardrobe could have a past decade to describe its look.
• You hardly ever think of wearing other colours or styles. (Black!)
• You just feel that clothes and style are ‘too hard’ or not your thing.
• You can’t remember the last time you did something different with your hair, makeup or clothes.

Life is always changing around us. Fashion changes, our body shape changes, our personality or our lifestyle may change, and we need to be able to adapt to these changes, and still reflect who we really are in the way we dress.

If you feel like you are stuck in a style rut, don’t feel depressed, instead feel inspired to change. Deep down, most women want to look their best, and want to feel attractive. That’s great because when you look good, so often you feel better.

Just because style or fashion doesn’t come naturally to you, it doesn’t mean you are doomed to a life of comfort dressing and feeling blah. We can easily show you what colours and styles suit you, and how to discover your style personality. Then when you do go shopping and start to create your new look, you’ll know what will work for you, no guess work involved, and no expensive shopping mistakes!

You can get a bit of help to just tweak your look, or you can get a whole makeover and totally reinvent yourself. It’s all in your hands. You are the only one who can make the choice to change for the better.

So do away with the excuses of age, time, money and body issues. You can look great, with little time & money, and regardless of your age and body shape, you can look and feel fabulous.

It’s time to break free of your style rut. Experiment, get creative and have fun with fashion. Start to create your own sense of style. When you know you look good, your confidence soars and you feel so much better about yourself.

If you would like some help in breaking free from your style rut, visit outfitme.co.nz or contact us to see how we can help.

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Mothers & Daughters

Recently I have had quite a few mothers & daughters book in for consultations together, and it has got me thinking… what a great way to do mother/daughter bonding!

I remember when I was younger, watching makeovers on Oprah with my mum, and being fascinated in the transformation of the women & men involved. That’s probably one of the things that steered me towards being a Personal Style Consultant.

Our mothers are one of the biggest influences in our lives growing up. Whether we want to admit it or not, they will have influenced our sense of style. That doesn’t mean that we all end up like little clones of our mothers, not at all, but rather, that we watch and learn, and decide what we like and what we don’t like, starting from a very young age.

When I was young, my mum used to make clothes for both herself and for me, and she showed me how to get creative and have fun with fashion. That influenced me quite dramatically growing up, as I learned to have an eye for what looked good and what didn’t and to have a love of fashion.

As us daughters grow older, the roles can sometimes reverse, and we can find our mothers looking to us for inspiration of what is current, and for new ideas in style. This has happened with my mother, as I’ve grown up, often Mum looks to me for ideas and fashion advice, and of course shopping help, which is great, as it’s always such a fun bonding time for us to go out shopping or look through each others wardrobes. We enjoy this time together, and although are tastes are not the same in all areas, we do inspire each other in different ways.

There are also however, the Mother/ Daughter relationships in which their sense of style is quite different, and they may not be able to understand each others taste, let alone pick out gifts! This can be source of tension sometimes, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You can learn to understand what suits yourselves and each other, from colours & styles, right to your style personality.

This is where I think these Consultations together can help quite a lot. As you learn what colours suit you and each other, what styles suit your body shape, and what your own sense of style is, it takes all the guess work out. It gives you a much better understanding of your own body, and each other. Plus, it’s heaps of fun. You get made over together, and get to have a great girly bonding time, and create some new memories together.

So whether it’s with your Mum or even a best friend, check out our website outfitme.co.nz and book in soon.

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What is the worst fashion faux pas?

According to our recent poll... you have a firm idea of what the worst fashion faux pas is?

The results were (drumroll please)....

46% - Muffins (bulge over hipsters)
26% - Trousers too short
20% - Socks with sandals
6% - VPL (visible panty line)

Look out for the next poll... and vote with all your friends!

The Magic of Makeovers

I love seeing the difference that a makeover can have on the confidence of people. I’m hooked on makeover shows, which is probably why I enjoy doing what I do, so much. My current favourite, the programme on Fridays, 7:30pm, Channel One, called “How to Look Good Naked”, really intrigues and inspires me. Albeit, there is a fair amount of nudity on the screen, so be aware of that, but its results that I’m there for.

So they start out with a person who is self-conscious, low self-esteem, often doesn’t like part or all of their body. This often affects their relationships, especially intimate ones. They will often dress to hide themselves, but hate the fact that they do this.

Now on the topic of often not liking one part of your body… one interesting part that they do, is line up about 7 women from smallest to biggest of that particular body part, (be it breasts, stomach, thighs, etc) and then the woman has to put herself in the line, where she thinks she fits in size order. Every time, she will put herself as much bigger than she actually is! Often right near the biggest, when she may be the second smallest! It amazes me how convinced they are about their size, when really they are much smaller. It’s a huge revelation to them. And slowly they start to see the truth about themselves – that they are beautiful, gorgeous women, who have great features, worth loving.

Through facing the truth, that often a lot of the problem is in their mind, rather than their thighs, they come out the other end alive, eyes sparkling, confident, proud of who they are AND how they look, and this has such a dramatic effect on their relationships and their whole lives!

They get a new hairstyle to suit their face, lifestyle & personality. They learn how to dress for their body shape & their colouring, do their makeup, and really how to make the most of themselves. Then they walk down a runway in front of thousands, strutting their stuff, and love it! What a turn around!

I love seeing people who are proud to be who they are. I love how makeovers can help to do that for people stuck in a rut. That’s why I love makeover shows, and why I love what I do.

Feel free to get in contact if you are interested in getting a makeover for yourself, or someone you love. Visit www.outfitme.co.nz

Inspired into Style

Here is a lovely email I got recently from a client who used to struggle with shopping and finding the right look for her...

"Thought I'd let also let you know that the shopping I did with you was excellent and I am now inspired to keep adding to it!!! I have bought a couple more dresses, skinny jeans (that I love!), gold flats and some tops/shirts for going out/casual Friday's at work - I'm not a t-shirt / hoody and jean girl anymore!! - Caroline."

Shopping Tips - as heard on Life FM & Rhema

Have you ever spent a whole afternoon shopping only to come away empty handed? Do you sometimes have that guilty morning-after feeling as you try to figure out why your latest impulse purchase looked so much better in the shop? Do you get hot and flustered in the fitting rooms?

For some people, shopping is more a chore than a delight. There are, however, some simple things you can do to make your shopping trips a much more pleasurable experience. It all starts before you even step out the door.

BEFORE YOU GO SHOPPING...

1. Make a list

Take stock of your wardrobe and see what things you need to invest in to work with what you already have, and fill in the gaps in your wardrobe. Keep in mind upcoming events that you will be attending, and what you will need to wear to those. (What do you have that you can use for the events? You may not need to buy a whole new outfit, rather just accessories or a new top).

2. Have a budget in mind

Try to stick to your budget as much as possible. I know that sales can be enticing, and "Oh my goodness, what a bargain! It would be a sin not to get it!" can flash through your mind many times over, but keep the list in mind, and keep the budget in mind too. This will save you from your guilty morning-after feelings.

3. Dress well

You will always be treated better by shop assistants if you are dressed well while shopping. Call it shallow, but it's a fact of life - people respond differently to you depending on how you present yourself. You are much more likely to get the help and attention you need if you are dressed well.

4. Wear clothes that are easy to take on & off

One of the excuses I hear from ladies who don't enjoy shopping is that they hate feeling all flustered and hot from getting undressed & dressed again so many times. Make it easier on yourself. Avoid wearing stockings if you are going shopping for a pair of shorts. Wear clothing that isn't hard to take on or off, you'll thank yourself for it.

5. Wear shoes that are easy to take on & off

Same as the above rule - avoid lace up shoes or boots if possible. Wear slip on shoes if you can (weather depending). It will make your dressing room time a lot shorter.

6. Wear neutral coloured underwear

Have you ever gone shopping for a pair of lighter coloured trousers, shorts or skirt and checked out your rear view only to see a black knicker line staring back at you? I have! The same goes for dark bras while you are trying to buy a lighter coloured top. It's just so distracting! This is something that many people don't think about. However it is a huge help, as it means no matter what you are trying on, your underwear won't interfere with your decision. Ladies, make sure that you are wearing a properly supportive bra. This will instantly improve your silhouette making you look slimmer.


7. If you are trying to match something, take it with you

This may sound completely obvious, but I think it's worth stating anyway. If you are wanting to buy a pair of jeans to wear with heels or high boots, taken your heels with you so that you know the jeans will be long enough. Or if you are wanting to find a top to match a skirt (which you shouldn't have got, because you had nothing to wear it with!), take the skirt with you to match colours against. Don't just rely on your memory.

WHILE YOU ARE SHOPPING...

8. Beware of sale racks

To many of you this may sound like blasphemy! I'm not saying never buy anything on sale, I'm just saying beware. Often things are put on sale by retailers either because they don't fit very well, haven't sold well, or were just a big mistake to begin with. Don't just buy it because it's a "bargain". Think it over properly.

9. Ask yourself the 6 key questions

Will this item go with at least 3 other things I already have at home? Does it suit my body shape? Does the colour suit me? Does it suit my style personality? How long will this item be 'in'? Is it within my price budget?

10. If you are unsure, put the item on hold

If in doubt about whether to buy the item or not, give yourself some time to think it over. Put it on hold, go and have a coffee or carry on with other shopping. If you can't stop thinking about it an hour or even a day later, then it's probably a good thing to buy. If however, you are still unsure, then just leave it. There's nothing worse that wasting money on something that you won't wear because "There's something just not right about it." (I call these Closet Orphans).

11. If you find something you absolutely love, buy 2!

I have often heard clients say that they wished they had another of their favourite clothing item. If you find something that is the perfect fit, good price, and it's a great key clothing item, then often it can be a good idea to get another one in a different colour, or even in the same colour if you think you'll wear it often (like the perfect fitting pair of black trousers). Obviously I don't recommend this for everything, but for the absolute favourites, it's a great idea.

12. Get an impartial opinion

Forget asking a stranger, friend or shop assistant if something suits you. Ask a professional! A Personal Shopper will help you choose clothing to best suit your colouring, body-shape, personality, lifestyle and budget. It is a great investment that will save you buying unflattering clothes or accessories you’ll never actually wear and adds to the retail therapy buzz because you know you’re buying intelligently.

I hope these Outfit Shopping Tips are a help to you. Feel free to post a comment if you have any great shopping tips of your own, or if you have any questions.

www.outfitme.co.nz

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What do your shoes say about you?

The way that we present ourselves gives off messages about what kind of person we are, the life we live, our interests, our confidence, our sense of style, often without us even realizing it! Today we are going to look at what your shoes say about you, and some of the common shoe sins that people commit.

So many people think that shoes are the one thing that people don’t really notice in an outfit… I beg to differ! You’d be surprised how shoes can make or break your look.

Isn't it a terrible shame to have a great outfit fall short because of an unattractive pair of clodhoppers? At the office, parties, and in our daily lives we witness this unfortunate phenomenon. All of us have seen others, or worse ourselves, let footwear drag down a great look instead of being the crowning jewel to complete it.

So what are some of those nasty shoe sins that people slip up on?

• Jeans with running shoes (running shoes are for running!) Sneakers are ok, but they need to be more of a street shoe, rather than a running shoe.

• Suits with skate shoes

• Socks with sandals or jandals

• Scuffed or dirty shoes

• Shoes you can’t walk in properly (too high or uncomfortable)

• Black shoes with white socks (especially if your trousers are too short)

• Stockings with open toed shoes (unless extremely sheer toe)

What do our shoes say about us? What messages do they send out?

• Strappy high stilettos - they make for a very sexy look are ok for a night out, but keep them away from the office, and especially job interviews, as they aren’t a respectable corporate style, go for closed toe pumps.

• Ballet flats – current, stylish and yet practical and comfortable, friendly

• Converse sneakers – popular, casual, arty, laid-back cool

• Fashion boots – keeps up with the latest, likes to be noticed, current

• Bold, colourful or patterned shoes – confident, loves to be noticed, creative, stylish

• Crocs – not my favourite shoes at all – they are all about comfort, but not style

• Running shoes while not running – This says "I haven’t taken any thought to what I’m wearing. These are my one and only pair of shoes."

• Men’s slip-on smart, stylish shoes – confident, stylish, good taste, attention to detail

Style Question

Hi Tanya,

I heard you on Life FM and thought I'd ask one of my burning style questions. I'm 20 years old very petite (5"1, 40 kg) so people guess my age as much, much younger (I sometimes even get given crayons in restaurants!) How can I dress to look older? I try to avoid bright colours and casual clothes.


Thanks for your question. I would say that you've got the right idea with things to avoid, bright colours & casual clothes. You could try the look of a nice blazer/jacket with trousers or jeans and some heels (closed toe, maybe pointy). Stronger lines will always look more mature, such as the strong shoulders and v-neck of a blazer, and the same with the shoes. But don't forget your accessories too, a nice necklace maybe.

Make sure your trousers are hemmed to the right length - not too short (it will make you look shorter), and not too long (it will look like you haven't grown into them yet). You will always get taken more seriously if you are dressed smartly and fashionably than casually and scruffily.

Also keep in mind that your hair style is current and that you remember to style your hair and do your makeup, that will help too.

Finally, stand tall, with good posture and confidence and people will start to give you the respect that you deserve.

Hope that helps,

Tanya.

99.8 FM Fortnightly Radio Sessions

Hi all,

Another great break for Outfit... I'm also going to be on Life FM (99.8 FM) every 2nd Thursday as well as Rhema. Double whammy. Very happy about that! So listen in for your fortnightly style sessions on radio.

Have a stylish day,

Tanya

Fat days

We all have those blah days in which we feel frumpy, fat or just generally very unattractive. But do we just have to suffer through them, or is there a way to trick the mind and the eye? Here are some of my tips for avoiding fat days:

• Pre-planning – Have in mind some no-fail outfits in which you know you look good. If you know that something fits well, and the outfit looks good as a whole, you have more confidence than if you just chuck on the first thing you see in your closet.

• Buy clothes that fit you well – don’t buy a size too small hoping that you’ll loose weight. Also, if you’ve put on weight and something doesn’t fit you properly anymore, don’t wear it, you’ll only depress yourself further. Ill fitting clothing actually makes you look bigger.

• Don’t wear anything too big, or too small. Too big and you’ll look frumpy, too small and you’ll look pudgy.

• Some styles of clothing will just not look good on certain figure types. If you don’t know what to avoid for your body-shape you could be causing yourself unnecessary fat days. Getting a Style & Line Analysis will let you know what works for you and what doesn’t. Check out www.outfitme.co.nz for more info.

• Avoid horizontal stripes, or noticeable seams, horizontal lines make you appear wider. Go for vertical lines instead.

• Try wearing just one colour on both top & bottom, or different shades of the same colour. This makes you look more slender, as the eye doesn’t stop at a mid-way colour change, but keeps going.

• Here is the simple rule of thumb: Wear darker, plainer colours on your areas of figure challenge, your larger half. Wear lighter, brighter colours and patterns or texture on your smaller half. The eye will be drawn to the lighter, brighter shades, and skip over the darker shades.

• Wear colours that suit you – this always brightens up your face, and makes you look healthier and happier. It’s like an instant face-lift. If you’re not sure of what colours suit you, come for a Colour Consultation.

• Take an extra 5 minutes to do your hair & makeup. It will make you feel more attractive and ready to face the day.

• Treat yourself to a nice cup of coffee!

Fortnightly Style Sessions on Radio!

Some great news... I will be a guest on Radio Rhema (1251 AM) every 2nd Thursday at 9:40am for a Style Session with Laurel, the morning presenter. I'm really looking forward to this!

We will have heaps of things to talk about, from great style tips, to new shops I've discovered, trends, caller questions and heaps more. So listen in to 1251 AM this Thursday 23rd September, and every fortnight from then on, for a great Style Session to brighten up your Thursday.

Summer's Fashion Forecast

Here are a few observations from my Europe trip of the up & coming styles for summer 07:

Looks:

• 80’s inspiration – highlighter colours, over-sized t-shirts with slogans, brights on brights

• Prints – on dresses, t-shirts
• Vintage - from accessories to dresses, waistcoats, bags, shoes, the whole 9 yards
• Man Style - boyish charm with shirts, waistcoats, wide leg pants and panama hats

• Nautical is back again with fresh blues & whites
• Metallic – silver & gold has made it’s mark on dresses, shoes, bags, accessories, tops, prints, well just about everything
• Prim & proper - high waisted skirts, tucked in shirts, bows

• Colourful – even the men are not scared to use lots of colour!
• Guys – Light cotton shirts with rolled up sleeves, waistcoats, skinny jeans, converse sneakers, and a Panama hat

Jackets:

• Cropped jackets with big buttons
• Voluminous swing jackets

Dresses:

• Voluminous styles

• Layered pinafores
• Tunics layered over skinny jeans or leggings
• Fresh cotton dresses
• Bright colours

Skirts:

• Tulip shaped
• High-waisted

Tops:

• Layering
• Playing with lengths – long tunic tops, short waistcoat

• Puff sleeves
• Extended shoulders
• Oversized t-shirts with slogans

Pants:

• Skinny jeans
• Wide-legged jeans/pants
• High-waisted
  

Shorts:

• Very short once again
• Can layer with longer cardi’s overtop

Layers:

• Waistcoats

• Tunics
• Cardi’s
• T-shirts under dresses
• Leggings

Accessories:

• Long necklaces, bigger is better, beads, pendants, antique
• Gloves – fingerless leather, bright colours, driving gloves

• Scarves – silk, light fabrics, long length
• Sunglasses – Ray Ban Wayfarers – bright colours, big, bold looks
• Hats – Panama, Fedora (as seen on Pete Doherty)
• Handbags – absolutely huge!! Big buckles, padlocks, luxurious leather, but also the whole “I am not a plastic bag” phenomenon

Shoes:

• Ballet flats
• Silver or Gold Metallic
• Converse, as always

Balance:

• With all the volume out there, it is important to make sure you have balance. If you have a voluminous top or tunic, balance it out with skinny jeans or leggings. Alternatively, if you are wearing wide leg jeans, steer clear of baggy tops, otherwise you will just end up feeling frumpy!

Shopping on Camps Elysees in Paris!

This is the most amazing shopping street in Paris. It has all the top designer stores from Louis Vuitton to Dolce & Gabanna and so many more, right through to some great cheaper European chain stores. What an experience! It stretches from the Lourve right to the Arch de Triumph, and really does live up to it's prestigious reputation.

I brought a gorgeous red satin jacket with a same fabric belt which I am wearing as write this update. I'd love to go back and browse some more, but we are off to Venice tomorrow, and we still have a bit more sightseeing on the menu.

Well, must dash, we are off to the Eiffel Tower for sunset!!

Top Shop

Today I went shopping at Top Shop on Oxford Street in London. Wow!! That place is so huge, and totally incredible. I didn't get nearly as long as I wanted in there, but I'm going to go back again (without a man in tow!).

In the women's section there was accessories as far as the eye could see... my paradise. I noticed a bit of peasant/bohemian style in again, which I was a bit surprised at, but also quite a bit of the fluro colours and a huge 80's presence too. I saw the section that was designed by Kate Moss, which had some great pieces in.

In the men's styles fluro and 80's was huge too, as were waistcoats, and great old style hats. Quite a variety in styles. Colour is big for guys.

We are off to Paris tomorrow, so I'm sure that will be very inspiring. Keep tuned.

London

Hi from London! So far we have had an amazing time here in London seeing the sights - Trafalgar Square, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, Buckingham Palace, Oxford Street, Soho, Covent Gardens, The London Eye (big ferris wheel), walking along the River Thames, Tate Modern Museum/Gallery and there's still so much more to see. Very exciting.

I'm keeping my eyes peeled for great London Fashion and will try to take some photos of inspiring people I see. So far I've noticed that men in London are a lot more confident with colour than our Kiwi blokes. Pastels and great colour combinations are a refreshing sight. As it's still a bit chilly here in London, with very changeable weather, I haven't seen too much of the Summer fashion for women yet, but will let you know what's around once I see it. Keep checking in, and I'll try to post regularly.

Outfit on Radio Rhema Tuesday 26th, 9:40am

Tune in to Rhema on 1251 AM or listen online at 9:40 tomorrow morning to get some great tips on accessories for winter.

Mens Style Tips on Life FM - Listen Now!

Listen to what's hot for guys style this winter, and check out how I critiqued Frank & Di's outfits...

This was on Life FM (99.8 FM) last week...

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Guys Satchel on Queen St

This is Al Gough, a hairdressing tutor at Servilles Academy. What a great satchel he has!!

I especially love the carabiner used as a clasp. It makes it even more of a masculine look.

What Not To Wear - on Life FM

A big thanks to all of you who listened in to Girls Talk on Life FM this morning. We had a great time talking about 'What Not To Wear', fashion mistakes, dressing for your body shape and shopping tips. I got to answer quite a few caller questions, which I hope was helpful.

If you have a Style Question that you would like an answer to, just email me on tanya@outfitme.co.nz and I'll post your question, and the answer here on the Style Tips section.

There is also a slot on Men's Style which is coming up on Life FM (99.8 FM) at 5:00pm today, with Frank & Di, so listen in guys! I'll try to get the recording of this so you can all hear it.

I will be critiquing Frank & Di's outfits...

So keep posted to see what they've done right, and what needs a bit of a brush up!!

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Boot Accessories

Check out these great accessories on the boots. It's like a fur cuff that has been tied around like a boot bracelet! I'm not sure if they were originally meant for boots or whether they are a fur cuff that she has used instead, but what a fun look.

Outfit Radio Interview

Here is another Radio Interview that I did a while back. Read on for some great tips on Winter Style...

Well it truly feels like winter has settled in – time to face a whole new wardrobe. Do you suggest doing a full wardrobe change-over from summer to winter?

I don’t think that’s completely necessary. I’m all about using the least number of clothes in the most number of ways. The best way to re-use the summer favorites is to layer either over or underneath them. Dresses – layer a merino knit underneath, and opaque tights or leggings underneath too. Team boots and tights with skirts to update them into winter.

How long do you think we should hang on to THOSE clothes that we love but maybe don’t wear so often?

Ohh, that’s a hard one… It depends on why you don’t wear it. If it’s unflattering for your figure shape or it’s a bad colour on you … get rid of it. If it just needs repairing or re-working, take it to a seamstress and see if she can make it work for you, but that’s unlikely, say your goodbyes. I’d say, if you haven’t worn it in the last 2 years… out it goes.

How do we deal with the fact that a lot of buildings are air-conditioned so we are so much colder outside?

Layering is the key to this Laurel. Use knitwear, cardigans, wraps & jackets that can be taken off inside. Make sure though that your jacket does still go with your outfit. I’ve seen so many outfits ruined by a big chunky casual jacket over top that just doesn’t go. Use scarves coats outside.

Also at the moment the temperature changes quite radically from morning to evening? How do we adapt our wardrobe?

Layering again, I often pop some tights in my bag, and an extra layer to go over top of my outfit.

What do you think of scarves and hats?

I love scarves! I think they are one of the most under-utilized winter accessories. They can brighten up an otherwise dull outfit, easy to take on or off depending on warmth, and they add a great deal of interest. For me they are about style, not just warmth.

Hats – I don’t like beanies very much personally, but there are some cut beret’s and knit style hats around this season, though they don’t suit all faces shapes, so be careful with them. Watch out for hat hair too!

Can guys wear them as well?

I love guys in scarves, and no they are not just for the metrosexuals. It’s a huge style factor that can add interest to an otherwise plain outfit. Wear them folded in half, looped around the neck, then put the ends through the loop, or just wind around the neck, on end in front, one end on your back, or just draped around the neck, both ends in front.

What are the popular colours this winter?

Grey is very popular, but only wear it next to your face if you suit cool colours. Red & Purple are quite big this season, as is black of course. But be careful with black next to your face, as it is often too harsh for a lot of people, and can make you look more drained and older.

What styles are in?

Dresses are very in, and will continue to be right into next summer too, so invest in one or two. Layering is a big look, as is footless back tights underneath skirts and dresses. Volume is a key look too, but make sure you only wear it on one half and keep the other half sleek. For Guys layering is big too - go for a nice dark slim jean, a merino knit, a blazer, a scarf, and some great shoes.

So much of the clothes that are in the shops are made out of t-shirt material - but this does not hang well, what material should we look out for?

Yes, definitely stay away from t-shirt fabric dresses or skirts if your hips & thighs are a problem area. It will cling in all the wrong places. I would look for a thicker knit, or otherwise a slightly heavier fabric that will glide over figure challenges rather that cling to them.

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Street Style

This is Rick, a Business Analyst from Auckland. I was sitting across from him on the bus today.

Check out his scarf and jacket combo. Such a great winter look for guys.

Tanya, live on radio this Tuesday - Listen in!!

Tanya will be a guest on the Girls Talk segment on Life FM (99.8FM)!!

This coming Tuesday 19th June, from 11am-12pm.

Listen in to hear great discussions on what not to wear, style tips, how to dress for your body shape, and more!

Winter Style: Scarves

One of my favourite accessories for Winter are scarves. Not only on women, mind you, but guys as well!

Most men tend to shy away from wearing scarves, as they think it will make them look less manly. I beg to differ. Here are some photos of guys wearing scarves and it looks really great.

So get into it guys! Grab a scarf and step into style.

Shopping Tips

Below is a list of my Shopping Tips... As I'm out shopping with clients quite often, I notice what works & what doesn't during shopping trips. So I thought I'd post these tips here for you all. Hopefully they will make shopping easier and more enjoyable for you!

BEFORE YOU GO SHOPPING...

1. Make a list before you go shopping.

Take stock of your wardrobe and see what things you need to invest in to work with what you already have, and fill in the gaps in your wardrobe. Keep in mind upcoming events that you will be attending, and what you will need to wear to those. (What do you have that you can use for the events? You may not need to buy a whole new outfit, rather just accessories or a new top).

2. Have a budget in mind.

Try to stick to your budget as much as possible. I know that sales can be enticing, and "Oh my goodness, what a bargain! It would be a sin not to get it!" can flash through your mind many times over, but keep the list in mind, and keep the budget in mind too. This will save you from your guilty morning-after feelings.

3. Dress well.

You will always be treated better by shop assistants if you are dressed well while shopping. Call it shallow, but it's a fact of life - people respond differently to you depending on how you present yourself. You are much more likely to get the help and attention you need if you are dressed well.

4. Wear clothes that are easy to take on & off.

One of the excuses I hear from ladies who don't enjoy shopping is that they hate feeling all flustered and hot from getting undressed & dressed again so many times. Make it easier on yourself. Avoid wearing stockings if you are going shopping for a pair of shorts. Wear clothing that isn't hard to take on or off, you'll thank yourself for it.

5. Wear shoes that are easy to take on & off.

Same as the above rule - avoid lace up shoes or boots if possible. Wear slip on shoes if you can (weather depending). It will make your dressing room time a lot shorter.

6. Wear neutral coloured underwear.

Have you ever gone shopping for a pair of lighter coloured trousers, shorts or skirt and checked out your rear view only to see a black knicker line staring back at you? I have! The same goes for dark bras while you are trying to buy a lighter coloured top. It's just so distracting! This is something that many people don't think about. However it is a huge help, as it means no matter what you are trying on, your underwear won't interfere with your decision. Ladies, make sure that you are wearing a good fitting bra. No tops look good with droopies. Hoist 'em up!

7. If you are trying to match something, take it with you.

This may sound completely obvious, but I think it's worth stating anyway. If you are wanting to buy a pair of jeans to wear with heels or high boots, taken your heels with you so that you know the jeans will be long enough. Or if you are wanting to find a top to match a skirt (which you shouldn't have got, because you had nothing to wear it with!), take the skirt with you to match colours against. Don't just rely on your memory.

WHILE YOU ARE SHOPPING...

8. Beware of sale racks.

To many of you this may sound like blasphemy! I'm not saying never buy anything on sale, I'm just saying beware. Often things are put on sale by retailers either because they don't fit very well, haven't sold well, or were just a big mistake to begin with. Don't just buy it because it's a "bargain". Think it over properly.

9. Ask yourself the 6 key questions.

Will this item go with at least 3 other things I already have at home? Does it suit my body shape? Does the colour suit me? Does it suit my style personality? How long will this item be 'in'? Is it within my price budget?

10. If you are unsure, put the item on hold.

If in doubt about whether to buy the item or not, give yourself some time to think it over. Put it on hold, go and have a coffee or carry on with other shopping. If you can't stop thinking about it an hour or even a day later, then it's probably a good thing to buy. If however, you are still unsure, then just leave it. There's nothing worse that wasting money on something that you won't wear because "There's something just not right about it." (I call these Closet Orphans).

11. If you find something you absolutely love, buy 2!

I have often heard friends and clients say that they wished they had another of their favourite clothing item. If you find something that is the perfect fit, good price, and it's a great key clothing item, then often it can be a good idea to get another one in a different colour, or even in the same colour if you think you'll wear it often (like the perfect fitting pair of black trousers). Obviously I don't recommend this for everything, but for the absolute favourites, it's a great idea.

I hope these Outfit Shopping Tips are a help to you. Feel free to post a comment if you have any great shopping tips of your own, or if you have any questions.

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